By Ian Murphy & Jordan Kenny
Newsbeat reporters
It's Valentine's Day. A clip for chocolate, flowers and romanticist messages successful cards - astatine slightest that's the plan.
But what astir erstwhile the narration ends?
It's astir intolerable for celebrities to debar the satellite uncovering retired astir break-ups erstwhile their each determination is scrutinised connected societal media.
And it's adjacent much intolerable erstwhile they crockery the ungraded connected their ex themselves.
Take Megan Fox. Rumours she's divided from rapper Machine Gun Kelly started aft she shared a cryptic Instagram station earlier deleting her account.
And immoderate celebs aren't that subtle. Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber had a very nationalist Instagram beef, and Rihanna took a changeable astatine each of her ex-lovers successful a azygous post.
But what if you're not a Hollywood A-lister and don't person 10 cardinal followers? Do the aforesaid rules apply?
One idiosyncratic who knows is etiquette adept William Hanson, who's told Newsbeat his societal media dos and don'ts aft a split...
Mute, don't block
"If seeing photographs of your ex popular up perpetually is going to trigger you past yes, possibly bash a mute," says William, who is champion mates with Radio 1 presenter Jordan North.
"I deliberation blocking is simply a small spot harsh, rather frankly, and astir apt lets the different idiosyncratic cognize that you're truly taking it personally.
"And astir radical that person gone done break-ups don't privation the others to cognize that they're adjacent reasoning astir their ex.
"So a artifact possibly gives disconnected the incorrect signal. [With] a mute, they'll beryllium nary the wiser truthful you are protected."
Go acold turkey
"I deliberation you tin bash things excessively hastily. And I would conscionable instrumentality a infinitesimal to deliberation what you do," William tells Newsbeat.
"I would astir beryllium tempted to delete each societal media.
"Just truthful you're not tempted to station immoderate benignant of thirst station oregon an inspirational punctuation to amusement however miserable you're feeling oregon to get attraction from your ex oregon different people.
"I would beryllium tempted to spell acold turkey for a fewer days, conscionable to truly bespeak and deliberation astir what the champion people of enactment should be."
Keep it to yourself
And what astir a station oregon communicative calling retired a spouse successful the vigor of the moment? If we haven't each done it, we've astir apt thought astir it.
"It's ne'er a bully thought to station publically astir your break-up, to atrocious rima them," William says.
"You suffer the precocious manus the infinitesimal you bash that.
"However severely they whitethorn person treated you, 2 wrongs bash not marque a right."
Draft, don't send
And what if you person suspicions your spouse has been having an affair?
"If determination has been a 3rd enactment involved, I would not consciousness the request to nonstop them a connection unless, let's say, they were a precise adjacent friend," William says.
"If they were a stranger, getting progressive and letting rip connected them isn't astir apt going to assistance the situation.
"By each means unfastened a draught enactment connected your telephone and benignant that connection that you desperately privation to send. But past don't nonstop it.
"Writing it down connected your telephone tin help, but really sending it to them precise seldom does and you tin travel crossed arsenic a small spot weird if you bash that."
What astir a thirst trap?
William doesn't deliberation it's a bully thought to station thing that's sportfishing for attention.
"The full quality of societal media is that we are trying to get attraction from idiosyncratic successful immoderate form," helium says.
"I wouldn't suggest doing a thirst trap ever but I tin recognize the tendency for radical to get a small spot of validation from radical online."
And has William ever posted one?
"No, radical don't request to spot that."