Hundreds of grassroots referees person told the BBC they fearfulness for their information erstwhile refereeing and are dissatisfied with existent measures to tackle abuse.
More than 900 referees successful England responded to a Radio 5 Live questionnaire, with 293 saying they had been physically abused by spectators, players, coaches oregon managers.
Some described being punched, headbutted and spat at.
Almost each the respondents had experienced immoderate signifier of verbal abuse.
The president of the Referees' Association successful England, which distributed the questionnaire to its 7,000 members, says the maltreatment of lucifer officials is having a important interaction connected their intelligence wellness and they are lone ever "one determination distant from a smack successful the mouth".
"One time successful this state a referee volition suffer his oregon her life. It happened successful Holland a fewer years agone and they truly changed their civilization successful football," said Paul Field.
The Football Association (FA) says a tiny number of radical maltreatment referees but specified behaviour is "completely unacceptable".
It has pledged to "continue to bash everything we can" to stamp it out, including stronger sanctions and the motorboat of a three-year strategy to assistance tackle the issue.
A proceedings of referees wearing assemblage cameras in big grassroots shot is planned to commencement this year.
Field said anyone banned astatine grassroots level for abusing referees should not beryllium allowed to be immoderate matches and called for the FA to pass elite clubs, with a presumption to preventing them from buying tickets for games.
He said immoderate parents' behaviour connected the sidelines was "shocking" portion players often imitate the behaviour of top-level professionals who question decisions.
There were 122 referees aged 17 and nether who responded to the questionnaire - much than 100 said they had been verbally abused by coaches/managers (105), spectators (109) oregon players (102).
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What the questionnaire revealed
- Of the 927 respondents, 908 said they'd experienced verbal abuse from either spectators, players, coaches oregon managers.
- Many (778) had been sworn at portion officiating, portion 375 had received idiosyncratic maltreatment astir things similar their appearance, gender, contention oregon intersexual orientation.
- Some 293 experienced physical abuse from either spectators, players, coaches oregon managers.
- A threat of violence against them oregon their loved ones had been made against 283 of the respondents.
- Verbal oregon carnal maltreatment had negatively affected the mental health of 361 who answered the questionnaire,.
- There were 57 radical who had received a death threat against them oregon their loved ones.
- The magnitude of maltreatment towards referees is worse present than 5 years ago, according to 440 of the respondents.
- There were 378 of the 927 referees who said they are "often" oregon "sometimes" disquieted astir their safety.
- Many respondents (506) were either moderately oregon precise dissatisfied with measures presently being taken to tackle referee maltreatment by the English FA.
*The figures successful the questionnaire are not statistically representative.
What the referees say
Ryan, 30, from Lancashire, erstwhile had to fell successful a backmost thoroughfare for an hr aft being chased by players.
"Every week erstwhile you spell retired arsenic a referee, you deliberation what's going to hap this week. I sometimes don't privation to crook up. It's freezing acold and you're going to basal determination for 90 minutes to beryllium abused, for £30, which is what you get paid," helium said.
"Without a referee turning up astatine the weekend, you're not going to person shot and grassroots volition yet extremity up going into the abyss."
He called for referees to beryllium issued with assemblage cameras, which the FA is hoping to pilot successful a proceedings this year.
Megan, 18, from Oxfordshire, had a genitor travel connected the transportation with raised fists aft she sent a kid off.
"He was yelling maltreatment astatine maine and saying this is wherefore girls shouldn't beryllium successful football," she said.
"I deliberation helium got a six-match prohibition and fined, but that isn't enough.
"It was astir apt the scariest acquisition I've had erstwhile I've been watching, playing oregon reffing football. It truly had an interaction connected my intelligence health, I was conscionable disquieted each the time. I took 2 weeks disconnected and worked my mode back.
"All referees get maltreatment and I besides get maltreatment due to the fact that of my sex - I'm pistillate successful a male-dominated area. I've had radical remark connected my thorax successful the mediate of a game."
Adrian, 59, Portsmouth: "In astir 24 years of refereeing, I person been threatened, verbally abused, been told they cognize wherever I live, besides been assaulted 5 times. Why I transportation connected I don't cognize - accidental the emotion of football."
Bill, 74, Leamington Spa: "I person been stopped from driving my car by players lying successful beforehand of my car and jumping connected the bonnet. Quite a fewer years agone I was punched from down and kicked connected the floor. I don't look my property and person immense acquisition with a bully estimation truthful I tin grip myself. But younger refs are walking away."
Joe, 18, Romford: "I've been assaulted by a grown big subordinate erstwhile I was 16, threatened aggregate times by managers and parents. A subordinate astatine under-14 level threatened to person maine stabbed and 'get his pack connected me'. Managers person threatened to spot maine successful the car park. Players person besides said this.
"We request authorities astatine authorities level which offers america protection. The constabulary request to instrumentality assaults connected referees arsenic transgression matters not conscionable 'a shot matter', and the FA needs to put much and summation sanctions."
Jacob, 15, Essex: "I've had players astatine under-13 level swearing astatine maine and parents undermining my authority."
'Players person a work to code it down' - Sutton
Former Premier League striker Chris Sutton - whose begetter was a referee - was asked by Radio 5 Live to referee his archetypal match, a inferior game, to find retired what it's similar connected the different side.
"Any signifier of maltreatment is wholly unacceptable," said the erstwhile Norwich, Blackburn, Celtic and Chelsea guardant who presents the BBC's 606 shot phone-in show.
"It's an contented that needs to beryllium dealt with, different grassroots shot won't survive."
Sutton has admitted to antecedently confronting a young referee portion watching his lad play and present wants to code the issue.
"I walked connected the tract due to the fact that I was acrophobic astir however severely injured helium was. I shouldn't person done that. I realise however hard it is," helium said.
Sutton said players astatine each levels should halt swearing astatine referees.
"We spot Premier League and different nonrecreational players bash that connected a regular basis. I've done it. It doesn't marque it close and each players person a work to code it down."
What the FA says
A FA spokesperson said: "We person implicit 28,000 referees successful England, and they are the lifeblood of our game.
"We recognize the challenges that immoderate of them face, and we person been precise wide that each forms of abuse, whether connected oregon disconnected the pitch, are wholly unacceptable.
"While it is lone a tiny number of radical who behave severely to referees, this is inactive excessively many, and we volition proceed to bash everything we tin to stamp retired this behaviour from our game.
"Through stronger sanctions, starring innovations and a caller three-year refereeing strategy coming soon, we are determined to tackle this contented and physique a safer and much inclusive situation for our lucifer officials to person blessed and fulfilling agelong word experiences arsenic referees."
*BBC Radio 5 Live sent the questionnaire retired via the Referees' Association successful England to its 7,000 members.
It was besides sent retired to the Referees' Association of Northern Ireland and the Referees' Association of Wales but insufficient responses were received. There is nary autarkic referees' relation for Scotland and the Scottish FA declined to nonstop it retired to its referees.